Saturday 31 May 2008

It's getting harder and harder...

Today's May 31, I last blogged on May 19. Sorry it has taken so long, it seems to be a real effort to update the blog, but here goes...

My nephew David visited and stayed over last Friday, the occasion being a few local guys meeting up for our monthly card night. Dinner was simple but delicious, and one guy sent along a cheese cake to die for (he had to work that night). The dessert lasted a further two nights - a white chocolate creation complete with fresh raspberries on top. The goulash and beef bourguignon lasted another night each. David left at noon the following day (still feeling a little seedy). It has been lovely seeing and entertaining family and friends here at the coast.



Also last Friday we had an unusual occurrence here on the coast. Not one but two boats washed up on the shore overnight. The first was a 27m long trawler with five crew - it sort of hit a sandbar just off our beach and came aground. That was the night before at around 9pm. At first light Friday morning another smaller craft stolen from its Kawana mooring washed up on a nearby beach with nobody aboard. I think that one broke up a couple of days later, but the trawler was later refloated. Never happens, then two on the same 24 hour period. Truth is often stranger than fiction.

The Sunshine Coast has yet again been excelling itself on the rain front. A sub tropical low has formed off the coast. We've had around 150mm over last last 2 days with more expected tomorrow and Monday. Disappointingly, in the dry parts of South East Queensland it has been minor rainfall. Perhaps these next few days will provide a pleasant boost to hopes and dams. (We're on the east coast where the cloud mass comes inland)

I've nearly forgotten to mention my birthday ten days ago. It was the most low key event of recent years, but also very pleasant indeed. I had two morning teas at my schools, and when I came home in the afternoon Rene and Gina (our Dutch neighbour) were there to greet me with coffee and cake (Rene's really spoiled me this time - he rarely if ever buys cake) and also a couple of lovely presents. Gina got me a lovely tall vase for the new house (black and brown vertically striped) and Rene got me a rice cooker. I bought him a top quality fry pan for his last birthday. Some folk at school laughed and laughed at getting an electric rice cooker as a birthday gift, but I love it and we even used it for the dinner party and it passed with flying colours. When you have the love of a terrific guy plus a brand new schmick home about to be completed, you just about have everything anyway (OK, enough of the schmaltz). Oh, I nearly forgot, at 6pm the courtesy mini bus from the Alexander Headlands Surf Club (where we're now members) picked all three of us up and sped us to the club for a lovely dinner, then back home again. Lovely day.

Speaking of the new home, I have just a couple of pictures to share. The tilers are working there right now - not sure because I've never seen them, but I'm told they are there. The house is locked up. The stone benches look terrific and the third bathroom vanity shows the finish off well. The tiling will make this a smart looking room. I bought bathroom fittings yesterday for three bathrooms - that's a lot of products. The electrical lighting items (including bathroom heater/extractor units) are at a friend's home until the electrician rings up and asks for them. I'm meeting yet another concreter on Tuesday to get a quote for driveway/pathways/rear patio. It is a challenge to coordinate things from so far away. I had a bit of a scare over whether or not the flick mixer tap in the kitchen would fit, but it does, so another minor crisis averted.

Last Saturday night Gina, our neighbour, visited for dinner, and would you believe it the second semi final of Eurovision was on, so we watched it together and made loud observations on the talent (and lack thereof) on the big screen. I saw the end of the final night, but we already knew the result from the net and TV news. It is a load of cobblers, but it is also gloriously 'out there' and at least you have reason to react and have communal fun at the same time. I know that my cousin Rachel in London last year confessed to being a 'Eurovosion Tragic' - good on ya Rache! In our lounge room it was hilarious to see and hear Rene's reaction to the crap songs and presentations - it was worth it just to see him in action. Incidentally, the UK entrant was more worthy than the points suggested (even Malta didn't give them any points) and the Balkan and Soviet Bloc voting patterns (as well as Scandinavia) were hilarious and oh so predictable. I only saw and heard the Dutch entry on the net. I thought it was quite good, a mix of styles that evoked the cultural profile of present day Holland. Oh well, there's always Moscow next year.

During this Eurovosion evening Rene suggested we might climb Mt Coolum the next day (208m). I agreed, and around 10:30 Sunday morning we were driving off towards Noosa. This 'mountain' is for experienced climbers (according to the warning sign) and I found the ascent a challenge - due to fitness more than anything else - but the descent was a serious challenge to me, especially where the steep rocky section induced some sort of vertigo feeling in me. Rene at one stage came back to assist me in a few difficult parts, but finally I finished and felt a deep sense of personal achievement. What seriously pissed me off was the number of people seemingly doing the climb effortlessly - three even doing it in thongs. As I said, for me it was a challenge, but I can tick it off as having been achieved.

We met a retired lady on the summit, and whilst admiring the view we talked about trips around Europe and this and that. There are so many lovely folk out there who have wonderful stories and interesting lives and who are just waiting to share them whilst admiring views and basking in autumn sunshine. We chatted for around 20 or so minutes, a highlight for me of the climb.

I met some fascinating elders from the local Aboriginal community last Wednesday. One of my schools, Holy Rosary at Windsor, held a celebration of the Apology for the Stolen Generation for Sorry Day. A troupe of 20 or so children from the school painted up and danced with the backing of a didgeridoo player Rodney Boschman . And guess what? This Aboriginal didge player was part of the Stolen Generation and was brought up in Holland and speaks fluent Dutch. You can see and hear him play here http://www.humanrightstv.com/episode/182 There were two huge cakes with the Aboriginal flag in icing on the top, masses of food, lots of talking and laughing, generally a good day all round. The issue of Reconciliation and working towards improved health and education outcomes for the indigenous population throughout Australia is and always will be contentious. A quote from Lilla Watson, a Brisbane-based Aboriginal educator and activist, was at the end of the printed program last Wednesday. It says, "If you have come here to help me, you are wasting your time....
But if you have come because your liberation is bound up with mine, then let us work together." Worthy of rereading and reflecting upon.

Afterwards, in the evening, I went to a couple of my African families homes. These Sudanese refugees are tough folk, people who have endured great hardship and misery. I can't for one moment really think about what it is like to arrive in a new land with little or no money, no language, sometimes no family support network, occasionally carrying the visible scars of torture, deprivation, rape, malnutrition. And grief. The children in the main are resilient, the adults usually stoic and strong. I introduced two new voluntary tutors to one family. We got a health form signed and ready to return to school. We talked and asked questions, we also used another parent who was acting as a translator when the questions became too difficult to understand. The husband is at TAFE learning English (coming along well too), the wife is working in a local shop. She needs more English, but can't attend TAFE because she needs to work to help the family here and also to send money back to her family back in Sudan. That they are happy, safe and very thankful is a tribute to their spirit. To be in their presence is a truly humbling experience. Our volunteer translator, another mother from my school, was unwell - feeling cold as well - but even so, she came to this house to help her friends. This is a woman who had her husband dragged out of their home and shot in front of her. She is strong - she has needed to be.

Next on Wednesday evening I followed the interpreter (and her three sons) in their car to another neighbouring house where we found another family from school. Here they are having their rental home sold therefore have to find somewhere else. I have been following up on leads for her and also trying to offload the task onto pastoral care people in the parish. Technically, this isn't in my job description, but when Australia insists on bringing in refugees without enough of the necessary support in place for them, it becomes a very difficult situation indeed. I drove home to the Sunshine Coast very tired but also feeling very satisfied. Not a typical day, but a good one though.

Perhaps by the end of the year the Aussie dollar will be on parity with the American dollar. Currently around A$0.96, it has risen dramatically. Rather like the price of petrol. I saw petrol on Wednesday in Brisbane at a high of 155.9c/L, but earlier it was somewhere else at 136.9. We're currently having huge political arguments over this pricing issue, one party wanting a uniform cut of 5c/L, another one wanting more interventionist approaches in the form of a Fuel Watch body that gets petrol companies to post their prices 24 hours ahead instead of daily fluctuations (not always because of competition either). My personal opinion is what a load of crap! With all my driving around I see variations of 19c (or thereabouts) a litre on a regular basis within a few kilometres from each other. All this fuss over 5c! I'm sure there's something more serious to be fighting about on the national stage - like food, water, biodiversity. Sure, fuel is a component of everything we do, but when the world price of oil has doubled in a year we need to be focusing on renewable energy, more clever tax rules to encourage lower Co2 + higher mpg cars to be attractive, solar panels on every roof in Australia, water tanks in every yard, greater investment in public transport infrastructure....you get the message.

Oh, if you think it is all too much and want to leave the country, it now costs another $9 more to exit all ports and airports....that's on top of the extra 4% fuel levy increase on Qantas tickets.

Well, enough! I hear you cry. OK, I agree. Rene and I are off to dinner tonight with a group of mates somewhere towards Noosa - it'll be Chinese, and reputed to be the best around. Ah, it's a tough life. TTFN

Monday 19 May 2008

Another birthday, this one's special...

This Wednesday will be special. I'll be 58, itself not a bad thing, but that's not what makes it special. It'll be the tenth anniversary of my starting to come out. Yes, it seems incredible to me to think a whole decade has passed since that momentous day in 1998 when I made the first (extremely) tentative step by making a phone call to a help line set up in Toowoomba. I celebrate my birthday for the sixth time with the most fantastic man, Rene, a possibility that I never ever allowed myself to even think about until just ten short years ago. Every day is a celebration of me being the real 'me'. I thank not only Rene but all my friends and family for allowing me to feel such a complete person on this special day.

We recently, over the long Labour Day weekend, had friends Rhonda and Bill from Toowoomba staying with us. It was lovely to have the time to chat and socialise with plenty of time to spare. This picture - sadly not quite terrific since my phone camera is only average - shows the beach at Mooloolaba with a training sailing ship (Young Endeavour) moored offshore and perfect sunny weather. They were setting up for a beach wedding further along and later that night we saw fire dancers twirling flames in the air on different parts of the beach - yes, this is a great part of the country. Oh, I still can't wait to leave it though. The house is still 8 weeks from completion.

Rene and I had a beach walk last Friday afternoon and the weather was sublime - around 24C and little or no wind. Not bad for late Autumn. Later that afternoon we attended a 4:10pm screening of Iron Man - not bad but more a DVD film than a cinema film. I only went because it was more suitable to Rene and I thought the big screen would be better, but it wasn't that necessary. Following the film we went to the Alexander Beach Surf Club for dinner and to play the pokies (poker machines). We even joined the club, and membership gives you cheaper meals and drinks. We had a top night (and Rene won big time too).

We have a Dutch neighbour downstairs, Gina, and she has been around to our apartment often for drinks and meals, and vice versa. She's extremely lovely and really enjoys our company too. This picture is from where Rene was showing her some features on her new phone.

Aldi is not everyone's cup of tea for shopping but we like it from time to time. Their filter coffee is superb, and our friends Peter and Bernadette along with myself think their muesli is second to none. Anyway, each week they have different specials, and recently they had a $15 set of electronic scales accurate to 1g. Rene is using it for his postage rates and of course, going up to 3kg, we use it for cooking. If you're on a diet it even has codes you put into it and measure kj and a whole load more. Just $15 - how do they do it?

Mind you I wish shopping was always so easy. Our local Woolworths supermarket has a weird way of putting signs on the aisles. If I could see down the end of Aisle 4 I'd see tea and coffee indicated above the floor, but alas at nearly 58 I no longer can do that when I don't have my glasses on - I'm not blind, it's just that my eyes aren't that good. Anyway, I've asked three times now to have the signs changed for aisle 4 that at least mentions either tea or coffee on the sign, as opposed to four mentions of something to do with biscuits. Alas, no, it's not store policy to think independently. That's how it's supposed to be, as set by management - probably some 20 something acned computer jock who has 20/20 vision and little regard for logic sitting in Melbourne. I assume it is a male, no female would ever make such a decision. The photo is the last one I took after the third complaint. No need to put the other two in, nothing has changed. Now, let me see....I think this aisle has something biscuity in it.....tea and coffee go with biscuits......ergo no need to mention the latter. Oh, give me a break, pass the Tim Tams!

Finally, a friend sent me this item about a bridge being built in Dubai. Once again it is very showy, quite spectacular, of course quite expensive. I'm always in awe of these projects being conceived then executed. That's how I always feel about Las Vegas - mind you I'd never want to actually live there.

Sunday 11 May 2008

Are we there yet?

I feel like asking this every time I check on the progress of our house, and the answer is, 'not quite yet'. Yes, we now have a garage door, we also have the solid timber floors installed upstairs, we even have the wet areas in three bathrooms and a laundry 'waterproofed', but it will still be a full two months before it's finished.

This coming week we have the balustrades finished, the kitchen should go in near the end of the week, and quite possibly some tiling may start - but I guess they want all the cabinets installed first. It does all look great, and both Rene and I are really pleased with the appearance of the timber floor. We wanted a light coloured and fairly uniform look for the timber rather than a more 'busy' mix that sometimes is used for flooring. (edit. the flickr pics are gone, click on these to see latest photos).




I already began this blog this afternoon, hadn't gone very far, a visitor arrived, I resumed after dinner. It's late. Rene and I have been enjoying a very busy few days recently, and I really want a good night's sleep tonight. On Friday we met with our bank manager, then drove to Brisbane, attended a seminar on collecting for pleasure and profit (Australia Business Arts Foundation) - at the University of Queensland Art Museum - went to dinner at a favourite Italian restaurant, then stayed overnight with our friends Di and Torquil. After a short night's sleep we had breakfast and headed back to the coast. Later in the afternoon we left at 5pm for a dinner party at Golden Beach Caloundra. We got home at 1:30am. After falling asleep for what was not a very long time, at 3:25am a group of new arrivals at the apartment block decided to have a swimming competition - I woke up, got up and explained (in rather restrained words) that it was somewhat inappropriate at this hour, and the two men and a woman acquiesced and retired to their apartment. I really desire a quiet, uninterrupted night's kip.

On Saturday there was a celebration of 20 years since Expo 88 opened. For six glorious months we forgot our cares and woes and indulged in a journey to every corner of the world every week for half a year without checking our luggage or buying traveller's cheques. I know my uncle and aunt visited from England and also two of my English cousins attended the exposition. Some pictures from two decades ago are here: http://media01.couriermail.com.au/multimedia/2008/05/080508_Expo88/Expo_88.html

Now, I should mention the Italian dinner on Friday night was a risotto made with spanner crab, white wine, finished with 16 black mussels, 3 tiger prawns and a serving of Tasmanian salmon. Stunning! Dinner last night began on the roof of our friend's apartment having nibbles and drinks while waiting for the cruise ship to come by all lit from bow to stern on its way from Brisbane to destinations in the South Pacific. We went downstairs to dinner and enjoyed great food, wine and company. One dinner guest there I hadn't seen in years, and her partner was a delightful French Tahitian man with a delicious accent that was brilliant to listen to. It was a brilliant night indeed.

Great news from Rene. His gallery in Nundah is to open on August 30 and is to be opened by the Honorary Dutch Consul to Queensland. The guest list is being worked on now and the invitations will go out in the next few weeks.

Rene's sister and her partner have just signed a contract on a delightful holiday home in Condette, North Western France, near Boulogne. I Google Earthed the village and found it was just 130km by road and ferry from the town of Deal, Kent, in England where I spent my first 7 years of life. It said it would only take 2.5 hours to travel between both centres. With my Australian perspective that seems like just down the road, but of course it requires taking the Folkstone/Boulogne ferry, which I guess would consume some time. I did that journey once when I was 14 and went with my Scottish school to Interlaken in Switzerland for a summer holiday. Great memories!

I need to sleep. Drop me a line if you can, even a comment on the blog or flickr. Hope your week will be terrific, mine's dominated by assisting in testing in schools and attending meetings. Oh well, at least there's always Rene to come home to. Ciao!

Friday 2 May 2008

Can you read this?

A local friend forwarded on to me the following passage. I'm not usually intrigued by many of these types of emails, but today's caught my imagination. Just try to read it...

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Self parking car


I knew about the MB S Class self parking car but now VW have it too, possibly for production in 2010. Amazing to watch.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M44INpBimcY&eurl=http://www.caradvice.com.au/
I know quite a few friends who'd benefit from having this attached to their car.